Archive for Case Studies of Healing

I just lost my dear friend and spiritual brother, Dr. Ron Arko, as he went back to heaven.

I’ve known Ron and Dori Arko for almost 7 years. My husband and I spent a delightful day with them in 2014 in their home in Newport Beach, California. We’ve talked nearly every two weeks for those past 7 years–heart to heart talks.

Dr. Ron and I shared a love for people. a passion for seeing them healed, a delight in God and his ways, a fascination with quantum physics and true science, and so much more. We agreed we were more than friends; we were truly spiritual brother and sister, our hearts knit together by God himself.

Ron was a very wise and gifted therapist, and a great encourager. He always knew how to build up a person. He made you feel like you were his favorite. He cherished his wife, Dori, in such a tender way, it made you want to weep and do whatever it takes to have that, too. He counseled a lot of couples and people in ministry, too.

I confessed to Ron a few weeks ago, as he was wasting away with cancer, that I was not afraid to die. I was afraid of the process of dying.

Yet, seeing how Ron handled his impending departure from this world, with an unwavering faith in God’s goodness, with love and peace and even joy, and absolutely no bitterness, patiently enduring the pain–it changed me.

When he got his diagnosis of terminal cancer, one of the first things Ron did was write his biography. He asked me to edit it. It was a wonderful exercise for him to review his life and tell what he thought was important. Knowing the subtext was especially poignant for me. It made me think about what I would say about my own life.

Something else changed me: what he shared about what happened when he died for 10 minutes at age 15 and went to heaven.

He told me about this heavenly vision just a few weeks ago, as he was getting weaker and weaker from the cancer. He had never told anyone but Dori until recently. Now he has shared it publicly.

You can watch him talk about his trip to heaven and get a sense of his beautiful life, at http://newheart.org.

“Once you have experienced the glory of God,” he said, “you never see life the same again. You don’t have any fear, and you don’t hang onto things of this world.”

I had always wondered how Ron handled the many traumas of his life so well. How he could be so loving, kind and generous, and have such a loving relationship with his wife, when nothing in his background equipped him for that.

Now I knew.

Ron helped me overcome my fear of dying. He died of a particularly gruesome form of cancer. In his last days of life, Ron told me that because he had already had God’s glory and love shoot through him when he was in heaven the first time, he believed it changed him on a cellular level and that’s why he always had such a high tolerance for pain. He told me God would prepare me for whatever I would face, just as he had prepared Ron. I could trust in God’s goodness for the means of my death. And now i finally believe it.

“God is good, all the time,” Ron always said. He never wavered in that.

I believe it now, Ron. I believe it. . . . Thank you. Thank you for showing me how to live life as though everything is a miracle. I know this is, as you said, only a temporary separation. I look forward to our reunion, and I can feel you cheering me on from heaven, just as you did from earth.

 

 

Big Aha–How Some Issues Hide

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In my group coaching program, I had a client who was working with a very stubborn money issue.  Her story gave both of us a big aha about how some issues can hide, and she gave me permission to share her story.

Laura had been “seriously in the muck and mire for years about finances,” as she put it.  We had been clearing all kinds of things, especially generational memories from her mother’s side.

Still, the money issues persisted. One day she realized that she got anxious not when money was going out, but when money was coming in. This made no sense to her!

A book on Laura’s bookshelf caught her eye: The Intersection of Joy and Money. In working through the workbook questions, she came up with an insight that floored her. “My answers to the questions revealed that my father made it very clear to me from a very young age that my job was to work hard in school, get a good education both at school and in music. He also made it very clear to me that he would provide for me and that I would have the money I needed when I asked for it. So at a young age I developed my beliefs about money and they looked like this: Laura, it is not your job to provide. It is your dad’s job to provide. Someone else will give you money when you need it or ask for it.”

Here’s the kicker:  This belief was rooted in an incredibly loving and generous and protective place. Laura knew that her father, who was himself dyslexic and graduated high school barely literate,  was  so proud of this smart little girl in his life that he wanted to support her in having every opportunity available.

“The feeling of love and adoration that I remember is absolutely beautiful,” Laura says.

The problem came later, in her adult years. This belief, nurtured in the soil of love, bloomed into a subconscious blueprint about whose job it is to provide for her, and crippled her ability to earn money as an adult. And the feeling she had now, connected with the memory, was panic. Panic when money came in.

A new picture also popped up on her heart screen: “I am in a labyrinth heading to the middle where my ability to provide for my family is located and I keep sabotaging my ability to get to the middle,” she says. “I keep getting distracted and caught up and dragged off course because of the subconscious belief that it isn’t my job to provide. If I just sit down long enough someone else will bring me the money I need.”

This belief remained hidden so long because it wasn’t grounded in trauma or pain, but in love. It’s easy to assume that negative beliefs are always connected to some negative memory, but as we can see from Laura’s story, that’s not always the case.

In fact, I’m wondering if some of the most stubborn issues of our lives, the ones that we can’t seem to get any healing traction on, may be rooted in positive rather than negative memories. A belief anchored to a positive memory might be the most difficult to identify and heal.

If you have had a stubborn issue that has been difficult to heal, do a little digging, as Laura did. Once she realized that the actual problem was when money came in, and prayed about what that might be attached to, she got her big aha and the wrong belief that needed to be healed.

In her case, there was no negative memory to be healed. There was only the positive memory of her father’s love and provision. Yet the belief that worked when she was a child morphed into panic and a negative image on her heart screen as she grew up. Remember, with The Healing Codes or healing prayer, what we look for are negative images, wrong beliefs, and negative emotions.

What stubborn issue have you been unable to heal so far? What beliefs were true when you were a child, but morphed into something negative that doesn’t serve you at all as an adult?

Heal the underlying negative beliefs, pictures, emotions, but don’t always assume there’s a negative memory attached. It just might be that a positive memory is what anchored a belief that no longer serves you.

If you need help in finding the core negative images, beliefs, or memories, consider getting some coaching and custom codes.

 

In my coaching, as I listen to clients tell me what’s bothering them most (the starting point for finding heart issues), I want to find the deepest issue their heart is ready to heal at this point in their healing journey.

I’m listening for what I think of as “the keywords to the heart.” These are words that have the most energy, that seem to encapsulate the essence of the heart issue.

When you put these “keywords” into your prayer of intention, your heart, like a search engine, will come up with the memories that need to be healed.

Your “keywords to your heart” could be one or more feelings. Or a phrase (see below for an example).

It could include one or more beliefs. Or a relationship. Or a harmful action–something they’re doing to numb the pain.

Or–all 4! In fact, I call these four areas the 4-part program: feelings, beliefs, relational context, and harmful actions. Most issues have at least three of these elements (not all issues have the Harmful Actions component).

If you want to speed your healing:

1. Identify your issue–what’s bothering you most? It might be a relationship issue, a health issue, a financial or success issue. Just jot down what’s bothering you most.

Important: Note how you feel about this, or any phrase that comes to mind about this issue. (We will come back to this later.)

2. Explore your issue a little further. Look for the 4 components of your issue: feelings, beliefs, relationship context. (Does this issue involve just you and how you feel about yourself, or some other person, or even God?) Are there any Harmful Actions or behaviors you do because of this issue? The obvious ones are taking substances to numb the pain, but there are many other ways to distract yourself or numb the pain. Working (too much) was always one of my harmful actions. Because I love what I do so much, it was easy to avoid unpleasant feelings and situations by working more.

3. Some people find it helpful to rate how much the issue bothers them, on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being unbearable and 1 being hardly bothersome at all. This can be useful to track your healing after doing a Healing Code. Other people, however, find it stressful to try to rate an issue. If it works for you, do it. If not, feel free to skip this step.

4. Tune in to your body for a moment as you think about your issue. Where do you feel that feeling/belief in your body? Again, if this is too hard, skip it. But it’s useful to keep trying. It will train your heart and your body to tune in to each other.

Now, as you hold that feeling and/or body sensation in your awareness, ask yourself, “When have I ever felt this before? What does this remind me of?”

Often what will come to mind is a memory. However, not always. If you’ve grown up with Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN), for instance, memories might be few. Pay attention to whatever comes up. These will be the “keywords to your heart.” Put these into the Prayer of Intention, and just like putting keywords into a search engine, your heart will come up with all the associations with those keywords–and heal them!

Sometimes the keywords can lead you into the 4-part program. Let me give you an example from my own recent Healing Code session.

I knew I was working on some kind of grief or sadness issue. In fact, I began to cry. As tears rolled down my face, I heard the words in my mind, “What’s wrong with you, that this bothers you so much?”

I don’t remember any specific times when this was said to me, but it sure was the tenor of my experience in my family. The beliefs I came to hold (which I am healing now) were, “I can’t have my feelings. Feelings make others reject you. Feelings are dangerous. Feelings slow you down. You don’t have time for feelings.” Harmful action: avoiding feelings. (When I took the Love Styles quiz, not surprisingly, I scored high in Avoider. I come from a family of Avoiders.)

The “keywords” that led to the beliefs and grief were, “What’s wrong with you, that this bothers you so much?” I realize now that my Highly Sensitive nature made me feel things at a depth that many others don’t. I didn’t know that then, though. Reactions from others to my highly sensitive nature led to much shame, guilt, and wrong beliefs.

But the good news is–I am healing these now! And you can, too. You can heal whatever “heart issues” are holding you back from the things you want most in life–the loving relationships (including with yourself and God), the success in fulfilling your destiny, and the good health your body is always seeking.

Emotions have great energy, and if we don’t “feel and deal” with emotions, especially those long buried, they will erupt in physical symptoms. But that’s the subject of another article….

Download the free “4-part program Tracking Form” I use with my clients. If you would like help in identifying the “keywords to your heart,” check out my coaching at https://HealingCodesCoaching.com.

I was talking with a client recently, who told me something that happened since she was doing her last custom Healing Code from me that was a beautiful reminder of how The Healing Codes affect others.

She told me her mother came up to her and hugged her and told her she appreciated my client for taking care of her. This totally shocked my client, as this was very uncharacteristic of her mother. In fact, it brought up hurtful memories of times her mother did not hug her when she should have.

What’s especially fascinating to me is that my client had been working on a generational memory from her mother when her mother gave her the hug. (Generational memories are trauma memories passed down through the DNA.) Apparently, when my client was healing that generational memory from her mother in herself and releasing the effects of the healing to her mother, something in her mother seems to be healing.

This is the wonderful thing about The Healing Codes, which may well be particular to The Healing Codes: our healing can be passed on to others we’re close to, because of the energetic connection we share with those close to us.

I have written several articles about how we can help others to heal through The Healing Codes, even as we focus on our own healing:

There is also evidence that doing Healing Codes specifically for others is effective, perhaps even more powerful than if the people did the Codes for themselves.

Several years ago, for instance, I gave custom Healing Codes to the grandmother of a boy named Vinny, who had an inoperable brain stem tumor. Over a period of many months, not only did his grandmother, Diane, do those custom Healing Codes, but I posted the Codes on this blog, and other people also did Vinny’s Codes.

The results were astounding. Listen here to Diane’s testimonial.

You can also see what happened when a mom and dad did custom Healing Codes for their young son, who had strabismus. Trace his progress here.

Whether you’re doing your own codes and releasing the healing to others, or specifically doing Healing Codes for others, know that the healing effect can ripple out.

And if you want to give custom Healing Codes and coaching to someone as a gift, you may do that here. If the person isn’t familiar with The Healing Codes at all, you can order the book + Custom Healing Code option, and also suggest they sign up for the free “Getting Started with The Healing Codes” email course. If ordering book and/or custom Healing Codes, all you need to do is put in the Comments section of your order that this is for someone else, and add their email address and phone number. Include any other special instructions, such as whether it’s a surprise or how much they already know about The Healing Codes.

Here’s a totally different view of symptoms than I’ve ever heard.

If it’s accurate, it turns everything about the way we think of illness and disease on its head.

Most of all, it gives great hope to anyone who has been diagnosed with a disease or condition.

This comes from an interview with Dr. Craig Weiner from the Autoimmune Vitality conference. (The conference has ended, but you can still have access to the whole series. It was very helpful to me, since I’ve been diagnosed with an autoimmune condition, Hashimoto’s thyroiditis. My condition got out of whack when the A-V vial in my HALO went bad, and I didn’t realize it. Now that I’m using a good vial, I can tell my system is rebalancing.)

Dr. Weiner is, among other things, a Level 2 META-Health Practitioner certified through the International META-Medicine Association, IMMA.

I’d never heard of META-Health before, but it’s totally compatible with the the philosophy behind The Healing Codes:

  • Your body/mind is highly intelligent.
  • Specific stress trigger, emotions and beliefs affect your specific organ tissues.
  • Healing goes through specific points and phases.

This latter point is what I want to tell you about.

According to META-Health, healing goes through specific points, levels and phases. You start with the natural state of the body: health, with normal day activity and night relaxation.

Then perhaps some kind of stress trigger happens, such as a trauma or a UDIN (Unexpected, Dramatic, Isolating, No Resources/Solution type incident). The trigger can also be a conditioned reflex based on some inherited trauma in cellular memory (what we call “hidden memories,” which could be in utero, generational, a birth trauma and very early memories that are recorded in the cell’s information energy pattern).

When this happens, you move into the Stress Phase, where the Sympathetic Nervous system (fight/flight/freeze) becomes dominant, and there is some kind of conflict (often internal and unconscious).

Here’s the interesting part. If you introduce some kind of Regeneration Trigger, such as The Healing Codes or some intervention that truly addresses the situation at its core, you can move into Regeneration Phase A. Now the “stress” is passive, as your Parasympathetic Nervous System (rest and repair) system becomes dominant.

Here’s the kicker, though: This Regeneration Phase A is when the symptoms can show up!

And in fact, they may get even worse. In META-Health they call this the Healing Peak. (Healing Codes jargon calls it a Healing Response.) You may feel like you’re getting worse, but you’re actually getting better!

In fact, the next phase is Regeneration Phase B, where the PNS is again dominant, and excretion–getting rid of the problem–actually happens.

Phase 8 is the Return to Health, in which your system is auto-regulating and organ function becomes normalized. This often happens in waves, by the way. It’s not a steady, even process.

Which leads finally to the last stage: the Return to Health and normal day activity and night relaxation. You have plenty of energy in the day, and you sleep well and get restored at night.

So in this system, as with The Healing Codes, we’re always looking for that original stressor–that trauma, that Original Event that caused the brain to register a stress response. When we address that, the body begins to move toward health, and as it does so, physical things come up.

We think we’re getting sick, but we’re really getting better at the point when the symptoms show up.

A fever is a good example. When some infectious agent enters the body, the body responds with a fever to raise the temperature to kill off the attacker. You think you’re sick, and maybe take some aspirin or ibuprofen, but that actually blocks what the body is trying to do.

If we can respect the body’s wisdom, find and address the root cause (the trauma or trigger), we begin this regeneration process.

Isn’t that wonderful news? Doesn’t that give you great hope? When the symptoms show up–that’s when your healing has started!

It does take a big paradigm shift, though, for many people.

All I can say is, “Try thinking this way.” Try going for the original trauma by asking, as we counsel with The Healing Codes, “How do I feel about this condition?” Then trace that feeling back to other times you felt this way (about anything), and use The Healing Codes and prayer to heal that negative memory, image, or belief.

META Health, the New German Medicine, functional medicine, energy medicine–all these approaches seek to find and heal the original cause, rather than try to make symptoms disappear.

Will you trust your body’s and your heart’s innate intelligence, and look to heal the SOURCE of whatever bothers you? I hope you will.

And if you need some help with this, I suggest you sign up for the free “Getting Started with The Healing Codes” and visit my site at https://healingcodescoaching.com to find out more. For more personalized help, consider getting a Custom Healing Code and coaching to find those “original events.”

 

 

Healing Lessons From a Splinter

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So I noticed something painful about my finger.

Drat, it was a splinter. I worked at it to get it out, but I wasn’t sure I got it all.

Big clue I didn’t: Pain continued.

I shined the HALO on it, using the Pain vial, the SuperSystem vial, and the Facial vial.

Still some pain. Probably the splinter was still there. Very hard to see, though.

I tried to ignore it, aside from shining HALO on it.

Still pain.

Finally, I got my husband to help me, because there was no way I could get this out myself (my little finger on my right hand). A magnifying glass confirmed there was indeed some dark splinter in there.

After much pain gouging the thing out with a needle, we finally got it.

Or so I thought.

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What Your Body Knows

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what the body knowsI just had a conversation with Alex Loyd about how the body really heals when you use energy medicine.

Energy tools such as The Healing Codes and HALO Light Systems allow the body to decide how to heal.

The Healing Codes do this by removing the unconscious stress from the body that comes from unhealed negative memories, feelings and beliefs (“heart issues” or cellular memories). When these stressors are removed, more of the body’s resources are freed up to heal whatever physical issues need healing.

The HALO puts into the body the energies from key botanicals, widely known for their healing properties, so that the body has those added resources to be able to heal itself.

happy body Most allopathic (Western) medicine looks to man-made chemicals–i.e. medicines–to “heal.” But these only address symptoms and give the body more to deal with–hence, the inevitable side effects. When you allow the body to govern its own healing, the body decides what’s most important to heal.

This is a very key point. It explains why people get differing results when using Healing Codes, HALO, or other modality that addresses the source of an issue, rather than merely the symptoms.

So you may do Healing Codes or HALO to address, say, acid reflux. And maybe it goes away quickly. You are ecstatic: “The Healing Codes work!” you proclaim to anyone who will listen.

When “Nothing Happens”

So then your friend starts doing Healing Codes or HALO to address her arthritis issue.

And “nothing happens.”

Or, perhaps she feels even worse. “This doesn’t work,” she says, and feels bad. Read More→

THE Key to Health

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Recently I watched the experts from the Parasite Summit, and oh my–I just had to mention this to you.

Because many of my clients come to me to find healing from symptoms for which doctors don’t have answers, I want to mention that several of the experts talked about two things.

#1: Parasites are much more prevalent than many people–including doctors–think, and are often at root of “mystery diseases.” This includes autoimmune, digestive, brain issues, chronic fatigue, diabetes, hypoglycemia, and many others. If you have had trouble getting an accurate diagnosis, consider that parasites may be at the source.

#2: The key to health is to get the body into a state of homeostasis.

The world of health is going through a major paradigm shift. For instance, the outdated version of gut health and even oral health is, “Get rid of the bacteria. Bacteria are always harmful.”

Well, now we know that even so-called “bad bacteria” actually are not toxic unless they are not in the right balance with the rest of the microbiome of the mouth or the
gut.

Which gets me back to what I’m so passionate about: equipping the body to heal itself.

The goal of every system in the body is homeostasis.

Even doing healthy things, such as “oil pulling” or using certain essential oils, can strip the microbiome in the mouth of bacteria that are necessary.

But if there’s an overgrowth, we think that we need to wipe out that bacteria completely, when what we have to do is restore the correct balance so that the body can get rid of what shouldn’t be there.

And that’s why I’m so enthusiastic about the HALO Light System. One of the main functions of the HALO therapy is to foster a healthy microbiome in the body.

The HALO  loads the body with anything it would need to get rid of what doesn’t serve it (and yes, there is a vial that equips the body to get rid of parasites).

In fact, after listening to several of these talks, I’ve decided to use the Anti-Parasite vial regularly.

And how does this relate to The Healing Codes?

Well, as you rid yourself of the stress caused by the unhealed memories, negative emotions, and lies in the heart, you free up that much more of the body’s resources to fight infections and heal diseases.

In fact, many of the presenters at the Parasite Summit mentioned the importance of dealing with emotional and spiritual factors. And Chris Wark devoted two sessions of his Cancer Coaching Program to the importance of dealing with the emotional and spiritual issues so that you can heal.

(Chris’s program is still airing free, by the way–replay weekend. A client recently told me how much she feels it’s helped her.)

So it’s always a two-pronged approach: you get rid of the toxins as best you can (including the emotional and spiritual toxins), and you equip the body with as many resources as you can that promote healing: nutrition, sleep, clean water, and plant-based medicinals such as herbs, essential oils, or the HALO. (Which delivers 100% of a vast array of botanicals through photon light therapy.)

Speaking of the HALO Light System, if you would like to know more about my personal results from using it since early April 2017, my HALO experiments, or the interview I did with Robert Quintanilla from HALO, please sign up here.

 

I just got back from a healing service at our church. It was part of the “Fully Alive” series my pastor and his wife are doing on sexuality.

In one part of this healing service, Stewart Ruch and his wife Katherine addressed mother wounds. As I sat there, I thought about my own history.

Within a week after I was born, I got very sick. There was some kind of abdominal obstruction. The doctor who operated on me said sewing up my skin was like sewing wet tissue paper; I was that fragile.

The operation was a success, and was written up in some medical journal. I, however, developed pneumonia and at one point, burst my stitches. They had to put staples in to hold me together.

All that kept me in the hospital for at least 6 weeks.

A nurse who worked in the NICU in that era told me what it was like: “The babies belonged to us. They never saw their mothers. We would prop them with a bottle to feed them.”

I did not get a chance to bond with my mother. It was not her fault.

When I came home, my mother was very scared she might do something wrong. She had to keep my older brother, who was two, away from me, because I was still so fragile. I think my first experiences of my mother must have been awash with fear and guilt.

Yet, sitting there in the healing service, searching my heart for any wound, anything to forgive, I found nothing.

Not even the memory of a wound.

That’s how complete that healing was, after several years of Healing Codes work.

My mother and I never were close until after she started doing Healing Codes herself, at age 76. She is a completely different person now. As her heart issues healed, our relationship bloomed. So did her relationship with God. Her memories of childhood came back, including some good ones that she at first thought she never had.

We now have the mother-daughter relationship I never thought possible. And remember, it didn’t start until Mom was 76. It’s never too late to heal!

This, my friends, is why I believe so much in the Healing Codes. They are a tool in the hand of God to heal. It is God who heals, but this tool makes it so much easier for us to position ourselves for that healing.

If you have a relationship that needs healing, I encourage you to take the free Heart Issues Finder with that relationship in mind. It will help you pinpoint what areas of the relationship and your “heart issues” need the most attention. Also take the Love Styles quiz to learn what kind of “love style” pattern you learned from your family.

And if you want to get some coaching and powerful custom Healing Codes for your relationship issue. feel free to check out my coaching at www.healingcodescoaching.com.

 

It’s been 9 years since the Labor Day weekend that my whole life began to turn around completely. And all because of The Healing Codes.

I had started doing The Healing Codes in 2007, way before The Healing Code book came out. I had heard about The Healing Codes in 2004, told a friend about it, she bought “the big package” for $700, and started raving about all it had done for her and her family.

For three years I listened to her rave about The Healing Codes. Still I couldn’t afford the package.

(How fortunate that now it’s available for so much less–free for the universal Code if you view my video and take advantage of my free ecoachng, or you can get the various Manuals downloaded instantly for a third of the original cost.)

Anyway, my friend eventually sent me her Healing Codes Manual, and in June 2007 I started doing The Healing Codes.

Three months later, on Labor Day weekend, I had a TIA (ministroke), from which I recovered quickly and apparently completely.

But doctors wanted to know what caused the TIA, so they did tests and said it was due to a PFO (hole in the heart).

You can read the story here, or watch the video of what happened, how The Healing Codes verifiably healed that PFO.

What I want to mention here is that, as I experienced, sometimes when you do The Healing Codes, things can temporarily get worse, or seem to get worse. I want to emphasize this, lest you give up prematurely and miss out on the wonderful results you can experience.

When I first started working through the 12 Healing Codes categories, as is suggested in the Healing Codes Manual, a few days into it I had what I now know was a massive Healing Response. I thought at the time it was food poisoning. As I recall, I was working in the Peace category, and had some major issues there.

Then there was the TIA–another Healing Response?

In the year that followed, as I did my Healing Codes very regularly, all kinds of symptoms would pop up–then in a few weeks, resolve.

Until I caught on to what was happening, Read More→

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