Custom Healing Code for “Father” Issues


Few people have had a perfect father, or been a perfect father, so it’s probably safe to say everyone has “father issues.”

I believe that the images we associate with “father” profoundly affect two areas in particular: success in life, and our spirituality.

The father has a lasting effect on both sons and daughters with respect to how successfully they operate in the world. If you have success issues, look at how your father viewed you, himself and his own place in the world. Heal anything negative that comes up for you.

Also, your image of God is inextricably bound up in your images of “father.” (There is a reason the biblical view of God is primarily as a Father. Earthly fathers are meant to reflect the heavenly Father’s life-giving nature and goodness. Earthly fathers invariably fall short.)

The good news is there is healing for father issues.

So just as I did for Mother’s Day, I would like to give everyone a custom Healing Code code for any issues you have about your own father, and/or, if you’re a father, about your own fathering.

Before you start using this particular Healing Code, I suggest you take the Relationship Issues Finder first, with your relationship to your father in mind. (You may also take the RIF with a relationship with one of your children in mind, if you’re a father, and do the custom Healing Code below for that relationship. Or your relationship with God, who calls himself a Heavenly Father. Or all of the above!)

So here’s your custom Healing Code for father issues:

  • Left hand Temple, right hand Bridge
  • Both hands Jaws
  • Both hands Temples
  • Both hands Adam’s apple
  • Left hand Bridge, right hand Jaw
  • 5-10 minutes, 2-3x/day
  • Good for two weeks from when you start

If you don’t know how to do a Healing Code, please go to www.healingcodevideo.com for step by step instructions on how to do the Healing Code from the book.

I also have Truth Focus Statements available (you always want to focus on the positive when doing a Healing Code) for free download at www.HealingCodesCoaching.com (look on the left column).

You can just focus on healing the negative feelings, images, and beliefs from memories, or you can use the 12 Healing Code Categories as your guide (one category per day, with the first and last days to cover the things that bother you the most). The 12 Categories can be found in the Healing Codes Manual, from The Heart Issues Finder or Relationship Issues Finder (see sidebar signup to the right), or chapter 11 of The Healing Code book.

Healing of these issues should improve your success AND your relationship with God. So please accept my gift and DO this Code at some point. You may do it with other Codes you are working on, or just concentrate on this one for the two weeks. You may focus on your father in one Code, and your own fathering issues in another.

And if you want to continue working on your personal issues in a more focused way, you may order coaching and custom Healing Codes from my site at www.HealingCodesCoaching.com. There are also lots of free helps there for understanding and getting the most out of The Healing Codes.


  1. Julie Helm says:

    Do you still have the father issues codes available? If so,  I would've gratefully interested in them.

    Thank you, jh

    • diane says:

      Julie, the Healing Code for father issues is right in this post, and there's a link to the mother issues Healing Code. But you have to know how to do a Healing Code to make sense of it.

  2. Linda says:

    Diane,  Diagnosed with ALS. Have mother (co-dependent, bi-polar, schizophrenic) issues. Told me wished I never was born. Father was alcoholic, narcissist. Treated mother terribly. Family broke up when i was 10.  Lived in group homes, foster homes.  Married/divorced an abusive narcissist. 2014 went off a anti-depressant drug, and could not talk. Now more neurologicial symptoms. 

    Wondering if coaching would be good for me, but cannot talk. Still walking, driving. But going down hill.  Is there any way I can be coached?

    • diane says:

      Coaching would help, though since you can’t talk, we would have to find another way. Someone who loves you and knows you well can act as surrogate, and if you can type, we can communicate via text somehow. I have done this with other clients in your situation. Go to http://www.healingcodescoaching.com to order sessions.

  3. John says:

    So a code can expire?  Or am I confused?


    • diane says:


      A custom Healing Code can “expire” because it is so matched to the frequency of your current issue, that as the issue heals, the frequency changes and the custom Code becomes weaker, “out of sync.” The specificity of the custom code makes it much more powerful than any other Healing Code. I tune into your issue’s frequency, including all the unconscious memories/beliefs “attached” to what you tell me.

  4. Dear Diana,
    Almost a year now my son has been behaving strangely specially with his father refusing even talk to him, refusing to call us or respond our phone call.Just out of college. Used to be likable person through out childhood until a year ago almost 26 years old. I cannot understand why. Feels like some demon got into him. I love him so much and worrying and feel so sorry wondering what went wrong . Please help me. I can not pay you as I am faraway in Hemalayan country. Please help Diana. Only hope is YOU ! Please HEAL.

  5. Zoi says:

    Dear Diane,

    Thank you for your prayers for all the people who need help.

    I am doing Healing Codes more than 2 years and I have to say I have seen some good  resaults in my personal life.

    Last July I have been operated whith breast cancer in my right chest ( it's the second time after 27 years) and found metastasies in bones and mediastinum glades too.

    They gave me two series of chemiotherapy and on 2 of July I will have my 3d chemiotherapy, because cancer indicators are still increasing.

    I beg you, if you think it can be, pray for me whith all our friends.Otherwhise, if you can give me a special code.

    Thank you and God bless you.

    My name is Zoi, I am 62 years old and I live in Greece


    • diane says:


      You will be included in my daily prayer and the custom Healing Code I create for people like you who have contacted me. God bless you!

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  7. Margarette Sheppy says:

    Diane – I just want to thank you for your words of encouragement that you send our from time to time.  I am not geting the results that I want but this is probably because I am no as consistent as I need to be.  I do the code every day but need to follow through more so your words are encouragement to me. I have a number of physical issues but as you say they are all connected to heart issues – thank you

  8. Verena says:

    As I grew up without my father so I definitely have some father issues! And I can tell from my lack of success; I´m kinda blocked in business as well as in spirituality  (it´s not really "bad", but "success" is different!)

    I´ll let you know the changes! Thank you so far!

    Verena from Germany


  9. Sherry says:

    Thank you

  10. Alix says:

    Thank you for your generosity Diane… Truly appreciated!

  11. Jacky says:

    Dear Dianne,

    Thankyou so much for these custom healing codes. I have many issues with my late father and hope that this can finally close them for me.

  12. Heinz says:

    Dear Diane
    Thank you for your many and valuable informations on your site. Having read the book I am a bit confused: In the book it gives instructions to use the codes telling that they would help. In the manual and on your site we learn about differentiated codes. Are they more effective? And why? And why is LT3 even more effective?
    It is forcefully pushed by Dr. Loyd at a remarkable high price. Although I am impressed by the codes and the testimonials I still am irritated by these various offers.
    Could you help to clear that for me? Thank you very much.

    • diane says:

      The custom codes are developed specifically for your issue. The more specific a Healing Code is, the more powerful. So the more specific codes in The Healing Code Manual will be more powerful than the universal Healing Code from the The Healing Code book, and the specific-to-you custom codes will be more powerful still. The LT3 codes are personalized custom codes that never expire and will always be great for you in those 12 categories (different from the Healing Codes categories, by the way), so I guess that’s why Alex charges so much for LT3. Hope this helps.

  13. Thank you so much. Just what I needed. Lots of love and light to you.

  14. Karen says:

    Thank you so much <3

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