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[FAQ] When/Why To Do The Prayer Of Intention?
Posted by: | CommentsA reader had an important question that can affect your results from the Healing Codes, so I thought I’d address the answer to everyone.
Q: I have a question concerning doing the Healing Code, particularly about the prayer of intention: Do we say this prayer every time before doing the code, or say it just once?
For example, if I have a complicated health problem, working on it with the Healing Code might take months every day. Would it be enough to say this prayer just once? I would like to do it correctly.
I also cannot find any similar feeling or memory from my past, so I do the code without it.
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My answer:
It’s best to say the prayer of intention every time you do a Healing Code. Setting your intention tells your heart what to focus on. You don’t have to dwell on it or relive it, just note the feeling, belief, or memory.
As for the memory (or lack thereof), it is OK not to include it if nothing comes to mind. However, it can be quite helpful to connect with the feeling (e.g. how you feel about your health condition and how complicated it is), and then see if you can tune in to a sensation in your body that comes up with that feeling.
Connecting with the body in this way may help you connect with earlier, unconscious memories. Note that this may take some practice. If you have trauma in your life (and lack of memories can be a big clue that you have, often from a very young age), it’s common to disconnect from the body. Just get curious and nonjudgmental about any sensation that comes up. When the heart perceives it’s safe to connect with the body, you can then feel the sensations. Be patient and gentle with yourself.
Next, if you can feel any sensations, ask yourself when you might have felt that sensation before. Again, nothing may come up. Or, a memory or perhaps a period of your life may come to mind. Perhaps it’s a vague sense that something happened when you were two. Don’t question or analyze it. If anything comes up, even if you don’t understand it, put it in the prayer of intention.
Doing the Healing Code this way, you may come up with different feelings surrounding your physical issue each time you do the code. That’s another reason to include the prayer of intention each time. Your heart will reveal and unravel what you are ready to heal as you go. There is tremendous intelligence in the body. As we learn to tap into it, healing is enhanced and sped up.
Here is a sample prayer of intention:
Heavenly Father, please find, open and heal the source of any disease or dysfunction in my spirit, soul and body [can add, “especially ____” and name the physical issue(s)], with any connection to [insert heart issue, i.e. negative feeling, belief, harmful action such as unforgiveness), from [insert any memory if you have any, or just say “the source memory”]. Please restore everything to your original, intended design by replacing all negatives with your love, life, and light. Please also magnify the effectiveness of this healing to the maximum level for my highest good, at an optional pace. Thank you, Lord, for your willingness and ability to do all these things.
This prayer may be a little wordy, but every word is actually very intentional and important, at least in my opinion and experience. Without going into the weeds about quantum physics, the idea is that when we focus our attention on something, it tends to manifest. (I say “tends” because everything is under the sovereign will of God. He may have something even better for you, beyond all you can ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20-21)).
Please don’t be discouraged about needing to do the Healing Code every day. It took years to develop your issues. It won’t likely take that long to heal them, but it does take time and most of all, CONSISTENCY. Keep at it even if you don’t see results for a while. Much healing goes on below the surface.
The Healing Code is more like taking Vitamin C every day to maintain good health than an antibiotic you take for a few days to knock out an infection. Again, consistency is the key. Find a good time in the day when you can set aside at least 6 minutes, twice a day, to do the Healing Code.
It should be a pleasant experience, for when you do the pointing you want to be focused on something very positive: a peaceful memory, place, or Truth Focus Statement you resonate with. Being in such a positive mental state sends positive energy signals through your fingers to the healing centers (the code positions), which work to cancel out the negative energy of the thing you’re trying to heal. This frees energy in the body to get to work on healing what it in its wisdom knows needs to be healed next.
I hope this helps you get more out of the Healing Code for your issue. And remember: the Healing Code only addresses the “heart issues,” not physical issues directly. As such, it is no substitute for medical care, but rather and adjunct that addresses the true source of any issue, whether it manifests emotionally, relationally, spiritually, or physically. The physical healing often, though not always, comes last. It all depends on how many underlying heart issues need to be addressed, which is why consistency is so key.
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What Lies Are You Believing?
Posted by: | CommentsEveryone believes lies.
It’s endemic to current human nature. In the Judaeo-Christian worldview, it started with Adam and Eve, the first humans, when they were tempted in the Garden of Eden and believed Satan’s lie. Ever since, we’ve believed lies, to our own (and often others’) destruction.
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The sad thing is, many of the lies we’re believing—about ourselves, God, other people, the world—actually formed when we were very young, even before the age of 6, psychologists tell us.
Something happens to us, we interpret it in some (negative) way, often erroneously because after all, we were too young to know much or to reason, and we believe the interpretation.
Often for the rest of our lives.
Example: let’s say you were punished for something as a child, and you didn’t understand what it was that you did wrong. Perhaps you had an emotionally unstable parent who would punish you at a whim, so that sometimes you were punished and sometimes not for the same behavior. Little 4-year-old you might easily have come to believe that you were just a bad person and deserving of punishment, at any time. That is the “truth” that your heart comes to believe, the “truth” that rules you unconsciously.
What would this lead to? Fear, anxiety, being as “good” a child as you can be so as to not to invoke the wrath of adults.
I have had many clients who wrestle with just this scenario.
Now, adult you may not realize what it going on. All you know is that you push yourself, you try very hard to fit in, and somehow it’s not working too well. You have digestive issues, perhaps, or struggle with depression.
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The healing comes, always, when the lie is exposed to the light, seen for what it is, and the Truth comes to replace the lie at a deep level.
I believe the power of The Healing Codes lies in uncovering the lies that we’ve come to believe, along with the attached emotions and memories, and replacing it with the Truth.
How do we find out what lies we’re really believing, since it’s often so hidden from our view?
Here are two of the most effective ways I’ve found.
With The Healing Codes, we look for whatever issue is disturbing your peace currently. Maybe it’s a health issue, or a relationship issue, or something going wrong in your career.
Once you identify the issue, you look at how you feel about having that issue. Does it make you feel sad, angry, depressed? Where are those feelings in your body? As you tune in to your body, allow yourself to ask, When have I ever had this same sensation before?
We go with the physical sensation because that is the best way to trigger a memory. Sometimes the original memory, from which we formed the lie we believe subconsciously, comes from preverbal times. If this is the case, you might have a sense that it was from when you were very little, even if you have no specific memory.
Once you have a sense of a memory (and sometimes, you have no clear sense of a memory—that’s OK), you can focus on the thoughts around either the memory or your current issue. This moves you further toward identifying the lie you may be believing.
Challenge the belief, without judging it. You can gently ask yourself, Is that really true? Am I really a bad person because I spilled milk all over the floor and broke my mother’s favorite glass when I was four years old? Did she really have to spank me so hard for that?
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It may be uncomfortable to see your parent in a different light than you always have, but try to accept the discomfort. Let your adult self bring some compassion to Little Wrong You. If you are so inclined, you might pray for God to show you the Truth, or even the lie you’ve been believing if you need help identifying that.
When you do your Healing Code, put in the prayer of intention the feelings, beliefs, and memories you want to heal. Then, when you point to the healing centers for your Code, remind yourself of the Truth. Let yourself feel compassion toward Little You. The Healing Code helps the energy transfer from negative to positive as you “infuse” the Truth each time you do your Healing Code.
Another way to find and heal the lies your heart is believing is to participate in an Immanuel Connection call. I guide you to a positive encounter with Immanuel (“God with us,” another name for Jesus), and ask him what lie you are believing and what the truth is. Then I give you a custom Healing Code to address the lie and infuse the Truth.
If this interests you, go here to find out more and sign up. The calls are held on the first Tuesday of the month, at 11:30 a.m. Central Time. (October call will be on October 8, though.)
The Immanuel Connection will not only help you heal faster (another name for Jesus is “Wonderful Counselor”), it will deepen your relationship with him. It is one of the foundations of my spiritual life, and that of many others. I am the only one on the planet who combines Immanuel Prayer with a custom Healing Code—at the beginning of the call to remove any blocks to receiving all Jesus has for you, and then at the end, to energetically change the lies to truth with a custom Healing Code.
I love the way one person describes it: “God replacing the pictures in the art gallery of our minds, removing pictures that do not have Jesus in them and replacing them with pictures that do.”
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Go here to download the specifics, and I hope you will join me on the next call!
Learning to See-Part Two
Posted by: | CommentsIn “Learning to See-Part 1” I talked about physical seeing, and how we might be able to improve vision through the Bates Method by correcting the sources of poor vision: mental and physical strain (i.e. stress), poor vision habits, and wearing glasses.
Now I’d like to address another aspect of “seeing”–perhaps the most crucial.
Besides seeing with our eyes, we also “see” with the non-physical aspects of our being, whether you want to call it the mind, heart, or spirit. (Maybe it’s all three?)
This kind of seeing is all about perspective.
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Often it starts with asking questions. Curiosity tends to open the mind to new perspectives.
Getting back to the Dr. Bates Method, as an ophthalmologist he noticed some of his patients improved, and he wanted to know why. He reasoned, “If a remedy (in this case, glasses) works, the dose should be weakened as the patient gets stronger.”
That’s not what happens with glasses, however. Usually the eyes weaken, and stronger and stronger lenses are prescribed. He concluded from his research that body and mind tension produces eyestrain and creates vision problems. Vision problems were a result of three things: mental strain; poor vision habits, and eyeglasses, which he saw as crutches that impede the eye from “working out,” as it were.
Bates started weaning his patients off of glasses, and their vision improved as they did his other practices. He taught other doctors to do the same, and their patients’ vision improved.
However, this was not what the mainstream believed at the time. Their perspective was pretty much what the current modern perspective is: we can’t know the root cause of poor vision, and we just need to treat the symptom (by prescribing glasses, of course). End of story.
Dr. Bates was expelled from his organization in 1891 for his unorthodox views.
He went on to open free vision clinics, and apparently cured a lot of people, including children, of their vision problems. I wonder if his methods would still be in use today, more than 100 years later, if they didn’t help at least somewhat.
Vision problems marked my life since I was born really (eye surgery to correct strabysmus, then lazy eye, poor vision overall, and now dry eye and cataracts). I’ve worn glasses since I had the eye surgery at age 4. Notably, my glasses prescription has not gotten much worse since I’ve been doing The Healing Codes, which would lend some strength to Dr. Bates’s theory, since The Healing Codes deal with stress.
I’ve written about the two ways of viewing the body before. It seems to me it’s hugely important how you see your body if you want to improve your health.
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One view, the prevailing view, has you dependent on the medical industry. If there’s something wrong, you need something outside yourself to fix it (medication, surgery, eyeglasses, etc.).
If you get a diagnosis, for example that you have cancer, the doctors will bombard you with all sorts of options for treatments. Do they believe the body has an innate intelligence, that maybe the body is trying to communicate something, and that possibly you can use those resources to overcome the cancer?
Do they try to find the root cause and create change on that level, and support the body’s natural drive to survive?
Not usually.
I tell my clients, when they get a diagnosis, to remind themselves of the truth: that doctors have found a condition they label as X, but it is actually simply a description of what they think they know based on a lot of other people’s experience (which is what research essentially is).
I’m not knocking that. We need research. We need doctors and hospitals. Surgery, medication, or other treatments can be life-saving and the best options.
But if you want to get to the root cause, so that the condition actually heals and does not recur, remember that you are an individual, and the cause of your condition might be completely different from the root of someone else’s similar condition. Doesn’t it make sense to at least attempt to find the root cause, along with addressing the symptoms?
Which brings me to another way of “seeing” that’s all too common: black and white, either/or thinking.
What if vision problems are caused by stress, poor vision habits, and wearing glasses? What if you can improve, if not totally correct, the vision issues by addressing stress and poor vision habits, and at least stop the assumed “inevitable” eye deterioration by improving the functioning of the eye and the brain?
Wouldn’t that be worth considering?
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My optometrist told me that one reason I was having trouble seeing well was “dry eye.” “Are you on the computer a lot?” she inquired.
Yes, I admitted.
She explained that normally we blink our eyes 15-20 times per minute, but when at the computer, or reading, we blink far less often. Blinking lubricates the eyeball. When you blink less often, you don’t lubricate the eyeball.
What was the remedy? Warm compresses (and she recommended a microwavable eye mask, which of course she sells), eye drops (I got a sample and coupons for buying more). Though “blinking less often” was the cause of the dry eye, she only mentioned “blinking more” in passing.
“Blink more often” is part of the Bates Method. Palming is also recommended, which my vision teacher tells me is better than eye masks because you have the energy of your own hands going into the eyes. Also, breathing to relax yourself while palming helps a lot.
Since I believe in energy as a healing force, I am trying the palming and breathing and blinking, along with other practices. Already my eyesight is improving somewhat, and I have not even been super diligent about the Bates Method suggestions. It will be interesting when I see the ophthalmologist in April, to find out if there are any objective changes. I’m open, but not convinced—as I was when I started doing The Healing Codes, by the way. What convinced me was seeing remarkable results.
I’m also exploring any “heart issues” that might be connected to vision. I believe that “heart issues” are often mirrored metaphorically in the body. For instance: was there something in my family growing up that I didn’t want to “see” clearly? Hmmm, we might be onto something. . . .
Could the “dry eye” be connected to the memory from fifth grade, when I witnessed two teachers bullying a boy for crying, and I vowed nobody would ever do that to me again? I didn’t cry much after that; I consciously suppressed my sensitivity. Is the “dry eye” about tears unshed, that need to be shed?
These are possibilities seem worth considering.
What do you ever lose by being open to possibilities? More importantly, what might you gain?
If you got a cancer diagnosis, wouldn’t it make sense to explore conventional treatments and also look for and heal any root emotional causes?
More and more experts, such as M.D. Gabor Maté and Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps the Score, as well as the famous ACEs study, attest how often emotional issues lead to physical manifestations of disease. Many of my clients who have taken this approach of healing the heart issues have enjoyed good, and sometimes remarkable, outcomes.
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Whenever I hear that “no one knows what causes X,” I immediately get curious and wonder if the root cause could be something no one is “seeing,” largely because no one is looking for it. (This “blindfolding” can happen for a number of reasons, but often personal gain is the motivator. Eyeglasses were enjoying a big boom when Dr. Bates was testing his theories, and optometrists today probably make most of their money on the glasses they sell. An anthropologist admitted this to my friend.)
These days, I like to make it almost a game to discern where someone is coming from when I read news stories, or opinions of “experts,” or media people, or social media, or medical people. There are so many different “ways of seeing,” and usually there’s a kernel of truth in almost everything. You often have to dig to get at the deepest truth.
More on that next time, in Part Three, where I’ll suggest a fun game to expand your (spiritual) vision, which will improve your relationships big time, and sharpen your discernment.
If you would like more, ongoing help in healing and transforming your perspective (a.k.a. your whole life), check out my Align with Your Divine DesignTM program.
What Healing Codes Should I Use For ____?
Posted by: | CommentsA reader, Kimel, sent me an email with the following question:
I am 70. I bought the Healing Codes Manual years ago. Is there a code for improving balance and gait?
There is no specific code for that specific issue, or any physical issue per se, for that matter. The Healing Codes heal the negative energy in your body that it is stored in the negative images, beliefs, and memories that I believe are held in an energetic pattern in the DNA or cell.
However, when you do that—change that energy from negative to neutral or even positive–the ripple effects in the whole person, including the body, are seen and felt.
Eventually.
It often doesn’t happen over night, as most physical issues, by the time they show up in the body, have a number of contributory memories, feelings, and beliefs feeding into the problem.
I say that because another question a client asked recently was whether The Healing Code work, even if you don’t “feel” anything. Read More→
Healing Codes, Medical Treatments–and Miracles
Posted by: | CommentsI received a text the other day that totally lit up my day. I hope it will fire you up about what’s possible with The Healing Codes.
Jose G. came to me five years ago with a diagnosis of leukemia. For four years it was pretty much kept at bay as he did custom Healing Codes to heal his heart issues. He also bought a Halo and used it regularly.
We worked on many of Jose’s heart issues, and also a number of generational issues. Realizing he is a Highly Sensitive Person was a huge shift for him. He began to accept himself even though he was different than other men. He began to know in a deep way that God made him this way and the trait was something to be cherished, not feel ashamed of.
Jose overcame a number of other physical challenges, including a very bad case of poison ivy, and COVID. He was hospitalized for the latter, but made it through.
Several months ago, Jose’s cancer markers got worse, and he had to decide whether he would undergo the medical treatments his doctors were suggesting. Being a doctor himself and seeing what such treatments do to people, Jose agonized over what to do.
I don’t know the specifics of what treatments he decided upon, but one thing we worked on was the fact that his father had had the very same diagnosis as Jose, and died five years after. It was hard for Jose to break out of the fear that he would follow in his father’s footsteps, as he faced bad news about his own health and was coming up on 5 years after diagnosis himself.
Of course we addressed that one from a number of different angles with The Healing Codes.
All of this groundwork paved the way, I believe, to the amazing testimonial Jose shared with me:
Jose is sorting through his own interpretation of this miracle.
My perspective so far is that because he had cleared away so many “heart issues,” his body had the resources to fight the cancer. The body is an amazing healing organism—if we allow it to do its work. No doubt whatever treatments he took were also a factor. But I personally don’t think we can attribute his healing solely to medical treatments. I have seen too many cases (and Jose saw even more) of people who underwent treatments and either the treatments didn’t work, or they impaired quality of life, or even killed the patients.
But I’ve also seen clients who have undergone medical treatments while also doing The Healing Codes experience great results, and even bypass negative side effects of the treatments. (I always advise people to include in the prayer of intention, where you mention the specific physical issues, “and any negative effects of the treatments.” I can’t remember any client who has added that to their Healing Code prayer experience debilitating side effects.)
Another important point: It was crucial that Jose changed that belief that he would follow in his father’s footsteps, lest that become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
(I remember working with my mother, who had a similar fear. When she was 78, she was very fearful that she would die of a stroke at 78, just like her mother. We healed that belief. My mother lived to be 88, and survived two strokes before she passed of congestive heart failure.)
I rejoice over Jose’s healing. I told him it made my day (really: week, month, year!). I hope you find it inspirational, too. I hope that it motivates you to regularly do this healing work. You never know what it may be staving off for you, or when you will need the foundation of healing it affords to get you through a health crisis in the future.
And if you need some extra help, check out my coaching options at https://healingcodescoaching.com.
Explore the Deeper Meaning of Living Your Best Life
Posted by: | CommentsRecently I got together with three other women who are all as passionate as I am about living an Aligned Life. We explored the deeper meaning of health, home, money & marketing.
We had a blast.
Our lively discussion focused on what Alignment with our deepest soul values looks like in various areas of our lives: health, home, marketing, and money. How can we break negative cycles and redefine each of these areas according to who we are, not how anyone else says we should be?
I talked about “Healing the Unexamined Life,” by which I mean a life ruled by unhealed heart issues rather than Alignment with our True Selves. If you’ve ever struggled with how to present energy healing to someone to help them understand what you do with The Healing Codes, this will give you ideas!
Vanessa Redford took the idea of Alignment into our homes to define “the alchemy of sacred spaces,” showing how we can set up our environments to reflect and support who we really are. It doesn’t require an outside designer or a lot of money, either!
Angela Matthews shed light on how we can heal financial trauma for a “ridiculous flow” of abundance. If you’ve ever thought, “I’m not an investor, I can’t do that”–Angela may well change your mind!
April Gregory talked about how “branding” is really a reflection of who you are. We are all our own “brand,” whether we work in our own business or for a company. Here’s how to shine in all your true brilliance to attract just whom you’re meant to serve.
Honestly, this discussion was a huge blessing for me. Not only did I discover a new way to share about The Healing Codes, but one of my goals (before I met Vanessa) was to transform my home. Another goal (before I met Angela) was to learn how to invest wisely my recent inheritance. And as I am being led in new directions in my work, new expression is required—i.e., branding (hello April!).
Not to mention I got to dip my toe further into video, and connect with some fabulous women. (It gets lonely being a soloprenueur, you know?) For me anyway, this Roundtable, which just sort of “happened” unexpectedly, was one of those “abundant gifts” I see coming from the gracious hand of God.
That’s what living Aligned is all about. When you’re Aligned with Your Divine DesignTM, you always get what you need, when you need it—often in surprising ways. How wonderful is that?
If after watching our discussion you have questions, here’s how to find each of us:
Diane Eble:
https://HealingHeartIssues.com, https://healingcodescoaching.com
Vanessa Redford:
https://www.vanessaredford.com
April Gregory:
april@wonderwomanmarketing.com
Angela Matthews:
Angela@happyinvestormethod.com
Getting through a “Long Siege”
Posted by: | CommentsEleven months ago from the time of this writing, I lost my mother, and became co-executor of her estate.*
It was the beginning of a challenging season in which this unwanted, intrusive, part-time job of settling a very messy estate gobbled up time, energy, and resources, and triggered a lot of apparently unhealed “heart issues” concerning my family.
I think of these past months as “the long siege” during which I was fighting to keep as much of my own life as possible from being devoured.
Perhaps you can relate? Maybe you’re going through, or have gone through, a season of illness (your own or a loved one’s), or unemployment, or divorce, or the loss of a home, or a bereavement, or . . . just this global pandemic, for instance?
The life you once knew is gone, and you are scrambling to move ahead, not just tread water.
How do we get through such times, which can amount to both a trauma and a crisis, and come out not only intact, but perhaps even somewhat healed on the other end?
One thing that turned out to be completely necessary for me was learning to let go of my high standards for certain things.
To get through any crisis or “long siege,” you need to let some things be “good enough,” or even to die, so that other things can live and flourish.
So I did an audit of the different areas of my life. What was most important to me, that needed to be prioritized in order to be preserved? (My morning and evening rituals, healthy eating, healthy relationships, my business.)
What could I let go of, or adjust the standards of? What does “good enough” look like?
Also: Was there any area in which I needed to raise my standards?
Turns out, there was: Self-care. I had to let go of the self-neglect that came naturally from my upbringing, and really instill in my heart that if I didn’t take care of me, there would be no “me” to take care of everything else.
I also made my spiritual and healing practices a priority. The two or three days I missed them, I really felt it.
I evaluated my resources and the current reality of what I was dealing with. I adjusted my housekeeping standards, and my expectations of my husband, myself, and my business.
In each area, I defined what would be “good enough” and let go of my former standards. (Or tried to; I tend to be an idealist and perfectionist, so this was not easy. The alternative, though, was my old pattern of pushing, which I knew would destroy my health.)
It was a painful but necessary process. It’s humbling to admit that you can’t do everything you thought you could or should be able to, that you have actual limitations, some of which weren’t there before but now must be acknowledged.
The gift from my long siege was it helped to clarify my true values, showed me patterns from my past that still needed healing, and clarified the boundaries that needed to be in place.
One of the most helpful things was to remind myself that this is “just for now, not forever.” There will come a time when the crisis will be over, and then I can reassess and re-calibrate. Lowering my standards “for now, not forever,” for a good reason (to preserve my health, relationships and business), helped me feel proactive and in control of at least something.
I also knew I couldn’t get through this without the support of other people.
I leaned on my husband, grown children (who were all wonderful), best friend (the only one who knew all the gory, blow-by-blow details that I spared even my husband), and several support groups of friends who prayed for me.
Are you going through a particularly challenging season, even a “long siege” of your own? (In some ways, who isn’t these days?) Perhaps doing an audit of your resources, redefining “good enough, for now not forever,” and reaching out for support from others will help you get through it as well.
Next time, I’ll talk about “when the long siege is finally over”–how to heal and reclaim your life. (Because, thankfully, that’s what I’ll be able to do as of next week, I hope!
(*Update: the “siege” actually didn’t end for another six months. What I had to do for a month in between was take a “medical leave of absence” and stop everything. The other players did nothing in that meantime. But I used the time to try some of the suggestions above. The siege didn’t end until God ended it–dramatically and tragically. But it did end.)
If you would like help in any of these steps, I’d be happy to come alongside you for that support. Check out my coaching at HealingCodesCoaching.com.
Healing the “Dark Energy Cloud” of Emotional Inflammation
Posted by: | CommentsI don’t know about you, but the events of the past several years have given me quite a case of “emotional inflammation.”
I’ve been writing about “emotional inflammation” and how these troubling times can literally affect us physically. The negative energy is all around us, and we can’t escape it.
In the past few years, it’s only gotten worse, it seems. I’m sure I don’t need to delineate the detailsof what I’m talking about. Even if you limit your news intake, as I do, you still can’t avoid the negative energy all around.
For some of us, especially if we have the trait of High Sensitivity, the energy is palpable: we feel it in our bodies.
One client said recently she sensed a “dark energy cloud” around her. Yep, that’s a good way to describe Emotional Inflammation.
Authors Dr. Lise Van Susteren and Stacey Colino say in their book, Emotional Inflammation, that it’s a state “not unlike post-traumatic stress disorder, but one that stems from simply living in today’s tumultuous world.”
That book was published in March 2020–right before “all this” became worse. It’s even more relevant now. Read More→
3 Lessons from Clients from All Over the World
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Tonight I met with my first client from China to do a Coach-Guided Healing Code.
It got me to thinking about the hundreds of clients I’ve worked with over the past 9 years of being a certified Healing Codes Coach-Practitioner, and what I’ve learned and observed.
First, I have the most wonderful clients in the world. Surprisingly, the vast majority of my clients are also Highly Sensitive. It’s surprising only because Highly Sensitive People only make up around 20% of the population, yet they comprise at least 80% of my clients. Perhaps it’s because The Healing Codes are so attractive to HSPs. It is a gentle process that involves meditation–an approach well-suited to HSPs.
With only one exception (more on that below), all of my clients are remarkably motivated to heal. Many of them have had overwhelming obstacles to overcome–abuse of all kinds, tremendous health challenges, financial hardships, and difficult relationship issues.
Yet they are not giving up! They are not victims. And, because of their commitment to their own healing, they do overcome. Many have dramatic breakthroughs.
These clients bolster my faith in the human spirit. Most people do want to be healthy and happy. God put that desire into us, and I believe he works with us to bring that about. With that commitment and help from God, it’s amazing how much people can overcome.
The one exception? A client with ALS whose doctor brought him to me as a last resort. The doctor warned me that she had little hope of his recovering, and soon I learned why. The man was completely devoid of love for anyone, including himself. I think we got through two sessions. I doubt he ever did his custom codes. He died of his illness within a few weeks of when I talked to him. His doctor said she wasn’t surprised, but had hoped that something could break through to him. Without his commitment to himself, however, no help could get through. Read More→
Dreams: Clues to Your Heart?
Posted by: | CommentsHave you ever had a dream that somehow seemed important, but you didn’t know why?
It may be a message from your heart about what needs to be healed.
I have long been fascinated by dreams, ever since college days when I studied Carl Jung’s ideas on dreams and the symbols of the “collective unconscious.” I was a literature major, so images and symbols fascinated me.
Now, as a Healing Codes Practitioner, I hear from clients who sometimes tell me their dreams, and I’m struck by how often the dreams give clues to heart issues that need to be healed.
